Traits Of A Cyber Bully (direct link or screen shot a self-styled conglomeration of edited information from bullying sites all over the web and repurposed as a page on one of your hate blogs) is a wonderful resource showing everyone you’re a bully. Wait. Say it ain’t so! Are you aghast by your own stupidity? Relax, I’m here to work that handy checklist you’ve stitched together and show you your own ugly, every hypocritical step of the way …
1) The individual is apt to lose his or her temper easily. They are quite impulsive and tend to get frustrated at minor events.
You mean like this?
Your blog is simply cited as a source after it’s later shown you would not confirm your information prior to the article’s posting. You later used attempts at confirmation to accuse the author of stalking you, but that’s another story for another number. You responded violently to the simple cite,.starting here, so I suppose we can comfortably check off the first indicator on your Bully List as it cleanly applies to you.
2) They tend to disobey rules that are set up by authority figures. They would prefer to set their own rules. They are defiant.
You mean like when you got banned from Goodreads?
Or do you mean joining forces with the bully site STGRB for revenge?
Or maybe you mean opening multiple hate blogs designed to harass and bully people you don’t like and can’t control?
Is that like when you moderate all comments on your blogs stiffer than my dry cleaner does my shirts, or is that more like when you type fake anonymous replies to yourself so you can answer them?
(Pick any of your posts with comments on them.)
Or maybe you mean one of the many times you tried to get Gen to call you on the phone so you could attempt to control the conversation, its outcome and ultimately her?
Or do you mean one of the many times you issued out ultimatums?
3) When they witness other people who are being victimized by a bully they show little concern for the victim.
Where do I begin? It’s in every flip comment you make and every false accusation you knowingly publish. Just a peek through your blogs and its comments should be enough for any reasonable person to see the only person’s victimhood you’re interested in is yours. You have zero empathy and often continue to abuse your victims with the same zeal in which you insist you’re merely defending yourself.
4) They seem to like violence. They look at violence in a positive and entertaining manner even when it is inappropriate behavior.
You enjoy the fight, especially the bashing, and often incite it. See your own blogs or meander below.
4) The boy or girl might exhibit some aggressive behavior when interacting with other adults, and authority figures.
You mean like gunning for Goodreads and Patrick Brown?
Or the way you treat anyone who doesn’t agree with you, even if it’s on their own blogs?
5) They have a tendency to want to dominate those around them. He or she want to be in control and take charge.
Like a forty-something old man hanging out with teen-aged girls and trying to control them through lies, threats, manipulation, harassment and bullying?
6) The bully is very good at talking their way out of trouble. If they are caught they can be and will be very persuasive when confronted.
I’ll aim for brevity.
Just a few highlights from two of your many accounts. You think you’re good at damage control. You’re not. What you are is killing the chance for any career you might have had, albeit small, by turning yourself into the kind of crazy that no money-making business is ever going to touch without a Ted Haggard-sized scandal complete with mega bucks potential attached.
7) They seem to really enjoy humiliating others. They engage in a lot of ridiculing and teasing of others thinking it is quite amusing.
Brevity. Still aiming.
Or maybe just something like this, where you mock people who are mentally retarded.
8) He or she usually exhibits a very self-assuring attitude. They are overly confident and have an extreme high self esteem. They are boastful.
It’s all over your media, especially the comments sections, but it doesn’t get any stranger than this.
9) Bullies can certainly be tall or short, strong or weak and/or boy or girl. There is no set physical or sexual characteristic that would say for certain that they could or could not be a bully. Age is not a factor.
You’ve proven you can be a middle-aged man and live to bully other people.
10) Is easily angered
See any of your responses to anyone on this blog. See most of your blog entries. You’re inner kid is piss-angry at the whole world, you blame everyone else for your failures and it shows. If you need links for this, just scroll up or down. They pretty much all apply.
11) Has no remorse for his or her actions.
Brevity. Yeah, I know. I’d like to see anybody else just pick one example. Choose any link I’ve already either linked to or listed, or just read the “mission statement” on your hate blog, here. That should do it.
12) Blames others.
Okay, all of the above and re-read this one twice.
13) Often resorts to name-calling, makes violent threats, acts superior to others, and feels justified in his/her behavior.
Not only are all your interactions littered with this, you can pretty much read any exchange you’ve ever had on this blog and see blatant examples of this behavior. Overwhelmed? Need a place to start? Fine.
14) Is often violent, both with words and actions, and is the instigator of confrontations and fights.
See number 13, then scroll up and down.
15) Participates in gang activities.
Go trip over to Douthit’s hate site STGRB and look at any of your interactions there. Then hit your own blogs. That should do it.
16) Is disrespectful to others, humiliates, and sets traps to embarrass.
First thing comes to mind is your admission that you created a “pedo sting” at Goodreads. There’s more but I’m trying to be brief or I’ll be doing this into the next millennium.
17) Glorifies violence and intimidates others.
See 1-16 and your comments on this blog.
Adult bullies target people who are good at their job and excel beyond them.
Kinda like you target Gen?
Bullies want to eliminate their competition and make their work seem better than it is.
You mean like when you tell blatant lies about her, and try to pass it off as truth through repetition?
While bullying is not acceptable no matter the age of the person doing it, adults will still bully others if they see it as the only way to solve their problems. Adult bullies target people who put them in danger of looking bad in an attempt to sabotage their work.
Oh. You must mean like every post on this blog that busts your ass, which is pretty much every post here that addresses you in any way. Including this one. Or the one where she reported you to law enforcement, causing a still-open investigation. Ouch, that must be a problem for you all right.
Adult bullies target people who are popular and well liked as well, especially if they are not too popular them selves.
We don’t just like Gen, we love her.
The more well liked and competent a person is, the bigger the threat they are to an adult bully. If an adult bully is seeking attention, they will target people who receive the most attention and try to make them seem less valuable.
Is this why you keep defaming Gen?
Go re-read point one while you’re at it. I told you that story would come in handy later.
Adult bullies target people with differences from themselves, especially those who have high morals and integrity.
Well, that certainly explains it.
A woman who clearly dislikes you for reasons you gave her but would shut down an entire blog in full swing to protect you from being doc-dropped is one seriously ethical woman. The kind of woman that, no matter what behind the scenes pressure occurred, would not give out any information with the exception of law enforcement and legal counsel.
You must hate her guts.
Don’t forget to send a thank you note, and try not to let your envy get in the way the next time you liken her to Hitler.
Adult bullies usually have problems coping with their own problems and are desperately trying to find ways to make themselves look better by targeting other adults who they perceive will not fight back.
Teens, too. Let’s not forget Jude. And other men. Men who porn stars don’t ignore. Men who actually get laid. You know, like John Green.
Adult bullies seek out these people because they are less likely to retaliate against them. Adult bullies target people with vulnerabilities as well.
Like when you make fun of mentally retarded people in the screen shot posted above or would that be more like when you call women ‘bitches’ and make racist remarks all over this blog? Or is that just when you’re trying to piss-talk your way out of trouble you got yourself in?
Adult bullies target those who have talents, strong friendships, or who are excelling at their jobs because of jealousy and inadequacy issues.
I’m sure Gen would like to have more time for lots of silly things (including you) but she’s fundraising for a national charity, donating her skills and materials to a prestigious organization, and consulting on a PBS documentary. You know, like while she’s working? Yeah.
I’m sorry, I forgot, what do you do again? Besides write hate blogs, bad poetry and record crappy songs on a handheld in your basement, that is.
Adult bullies feel as though they have to victimize others because they are envious of their talents. Even though it would be easier to just work harder at developing their own talents, adult bullies seek to damage other people instead of working harder themselves.
Kinda what she said about you rather early on, isn’t it? Here, she nailed it. Refresh yourself.
Bryant: guilty on every count.
Congratulations, you’re the bully you’ve been warning everyone about. Thanks for posting the warning directly on your own hate blog so everyone can measure you against it and see you for exactly what you are. So, tell me, what does it feel like to be a victim of your own stupid?
Imbibing minds, we want to know.